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Kin Caregivers Make a Profound Impact
Foster Care March 10, 2010 By Catie Hargrove
Presented by Charles Chamber, Program Director, Kinship Center Family Ties Program
at Input Hearing for Reauthorization of the Older Americans Act 
San Francisco, CA, March 3, 2010

To begin, when you refer to “caregivers” in your Topics List, you are primarily talking about a younger person caring for an older person. I would like to request that you add a topic of Kin Caregiver which would refer to an older person caring for a related child.  The impact and increase of the elderly having to care for small children in today's society is very profound.
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Developing a Positive Racial and Ethnic Identity
Parenting March 9, 2010 By Catie Hargrove
Parents who adopt children from a different ethnic or racial background have additional parenting tasks as they assist their children in developing positive racial and ethnic identity.  One of the leading experts in the field of transracial adoptions is Dr. Joseph Crumbley, DSW.  One of the experts featured in this video, Dr. Crumbley speaks to the need for parents to not minimize their child's experience of racism and discrimination.  As you will see in this clip, this is often a very tricky subject for Caucasian parents.

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Yoga Therapy for Kids
Parenting March 1, 2010 By Catie Hargrove

Reprinted from the Child Trauma Academy Newsletter, February 2010

      Children are not simply small adults. They learn differently - often making sense of their world through motion and touch. They even express their feelings in physical ways - when angry, they hit and kick. Because kids do not have the cognitive abilities to understand and control their feelings, in order to change how they feel, they may need to actually manipulate their physical state. Traumatized children are especially prone to confusing and seemingly uncontrollable physical sensations and feelings. Yoga, a form of exercise, relaxation, and meditation is particularly beneficial for these children, and for reasons beyond why exercise in general is helpful.
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Children's Rights and Open Adoption
Adoption February 19, 2010 By Catie Hargrove

By: Sharon Kaplan Roszia, M.S.

This list of Children's Rights and Open Adoption offers practitioners in foster care and adoption, as well as parents, a guide for practice and right action. The list also allows us to look at all children in our society through a broader lens.  Children come into the world with their rights intact and the adults in their lives have the obligation to preserve those rights until the child can act on them. 

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Looking for a New Book To Read?
Books January 28, 2010 By Catie Hargrove
Mindsight: The New Science of Transformation
(Random House 2010)
A groundbreaking book on the healing power of "mindsight," the potent skill that is the basis for both emotional and social intelligence. Mindsight allows you to make positive changes in your brain–and in your life.
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Attachment Through the Senses
Parenting January 8, 2010 By Catie Hargrove

Using the Power of the Five Senses to Increase Attachment

by Margaret A. Creek, MFT, ATR-BC and Laura Ornelas, MSW, LCSW - Kinship Center

Many foster and adoptive parents come to our clinics, asking for the specific, perhaps magical therapy that is going to fully “attach” their foster or adopted child to them . What they frequently do not realize is that they are already holding the key. 

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Have You Hugged Your Therapy Dog Today?
Foster Care December 16, 2009 By Catie Hargrove

Kinship Center's Therapy Dogs Making a Difference in the Lives of Children

by Leigh Cecka

Kinship Center Therapy Dogs

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Pardon me, do you have a cold or flu?
Parenting December 15, 2009 By Catie Hargrove

Mistaking "symptoms" as "problems" and missing the chance to be therapeutic.

By Lorraine E. Fox, Ph.D.

As I approach my 44th year working with mistreated children and youth and those who serve them, I am continually discouraged by how often I encounter child care workers, foster parents, and others who confuse "symptoms" with "problems."  Symptoms are a gift from God/nature, allowing us to know when something is not right with our system, so that we can attend to it and give our bodies the care it needs. How would I know I was coming down with a cold, or flu, if my body didn’t ache, sneeze, cough, and generally feel bad? How would I know that I had an infection if I didn’t run a temperature? Sneezing, coughing, aches, and temperatures are not problems, but signals – signs of distress that cue us of the need to engage in caretaking activities.

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Foster-Adoption – Your Questions Answered!
Foster Care December 11, 2009 By Catie Hargrove

Ever wonder about working with an agency for children needing placement from the foster/adopt system?

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Siblings in Adoption and Foster Care
Books December 8, 2009 By Olivia Yates

A book by Deborah Silverstein and Susan L. Smith

Some excerpts:

“If a society is known by how well it treats those who are most vulnerable, then as a society we should be ashamed.”

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Becoming Your Foster Child’s Emotional Tutor
Foster Care December 7, 2009 By Allison Davis Maxon, M.S., M.F.T.

Children in foster care have all experienced varying degrees of abuse, neglect and/or multiple placements. They typically have increased social, emotional and behavioral problems, most often due to their inability to modulate internal affective or feeling states.

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